Lately Monster has been holding his birthday party over my head. As in, when he gets mad at me, he tells me, "You're not coming to my birthday anymore!" Not just me either. Anyone who pisses him off or looks at him wrong is taken off the list of invitees.
Today was different though. Today is my birthday and this morning, as he was holding my hand, he told me, "You come to my birthday mama."
And no matter what happens the rest of this day, that will be the best part.